My thoughts on the Netflix TV Series: Maid

Right off the bat it is a heart wrenching series. From this series, I learned that we should all be more mindful of our mental hygiene and keep track of our mental health, as many people are unaware that they have been victims of emotional abuse.

A girl named “Alex” was raised by a father who had emotionally mistreated her mother for years, leading to her mother's physical illness. Unfortunately, she ended up marrying a man suffering from PTSD. 

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She ran out from her house with her daughter in the middle of night, wanting to put an end to the anxiety that her husband, an alcoholic, had instilled in her at the start of the series.

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Sad to say, the husband filed an emergency injunction to get back sole custody by giving limitation visitation to Alex from court. He hired a fancy lawyer while Alex was struggling for food for her daughter.

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The same concept can be applied in Malaysia, there is no law to protect someone under emotional abuse like in the USA. We should be more cautious about emotional abuse in our life.

From 6 till 25 years old, Alex never noticed that her mom had psycho problem till one occasion occurred and  her mom ended up in the psycho ward.

She was terrified because she didn't want the same thing to happen to her, and she was afraid that she would inflict that anguish on her own child.

The sad part is that children who are subjected to emotional abuse does not have the ability to fight back and stand up for themselves. When her mother was in the psycho ward, she hoped her husband would turn over a new leaf by showering her with love again.

Alex fell into the trap again and her husband retaliated and stopped her from going out of town to pursue her studies . She realised she had once again become a victim of domestic violence.

The second chance given to her husband resulted in her foregoing the opportunity to continue her studies in university, and she was in despair until someone stood up for her and pushed her to fight back.

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What we have learned from this series is that there are many people out there are suffering emotional abuse but the majority of them do not know that he or she is one of the victims.

There are far too many families out there who appear posh on the outside but are filled with wounds and grief on the inside.

I do hope the law can draw a line and write down the responsibilities & duties between all relationships.

Those who are not suited to marry shall not marry anyone in their life.

They shouldn't pass on those wounds from one generation to another.

Lots of love,

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

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什么人“不适合结婚”？

 “我适合结婚吗?”

很多人还未结婚就怕离婚，

怕未来生活被捆绑没自由，

怕对方要求苛刻 ，

然而如果你有以上的恐惧时，

你其实必定要问自己的不是对方适不适合你?

而是你自己适合结婚吗?

我在离婚法律界那么久，

很多时候不是对方不适合，

而是自己本人根本就不适合结婚。

怎么说呢?

每个人在单身时的生活方式都不一样，

每个人有自己喜欢的生活。

我爱星期五晚上和朋友玩到星期六。

但是我老公就是"限制"我或为了这事情吵架。

当然这生活方式没犯罪，

没人能阻止我继续那样。

问题是和我一起生活的人不能接受，

这时候我可以很坚持我的立场，

只是这个坚持无端端把两人距离，

越拉越远， 这时后我就得问自己我的坚持值得吗?

进入人生另个阶段，

它本来就是你人生和生活中变化的开始，

很多东西不再是"你"或"我"，

而是我们 。

你想在生活中得到另个突破，

你也必定学会放下一些你喜欢的事，

有失有得，

没有东西是完全赢完的 。

有些坚持如果伤到对方，

你就得考虑你愿意调整吗?

有些时候这不是失去自由，

是你愿意为了这个新生活，

你愿意改变吗?

我们人类不要很多事，

都把一切怪罪他人身上，

是我们自己要踏入人生另个阶段，

是我们自己选择不单身，

是我们害怕单身的，

所以我们必须为自己做出一些改变。

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本文由 Messrs. William, Florence & Partners 提供。本所是一家总部位于新山（Johor Bahru）的诉讼律师事务所，专注于处理复杂的民事纠纷和婚姻事务。在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon（林伟伦律师） 和 Florence Toh（杜贞贞律师） 的领导下，本所在马来西亚高等法院和下级法院提供高水准的法律代表服务。

我们的专业执业支柱（2026年更新）：

复杂民事诉讼与侵权行为： 针对疏忽索赔、土地纠纷和商业诉讼的强力辩护。我们处理中间申请（禁制令）和完整审讯。

判决执行与债务追讨： 判决后执行的专业知识，包括第三方债务扣押令 (Garnishee Orders)、动产起获与销售令 (Writ of Seizure and Sale - WSS)、驱逐程序和判决债务人传票。

公司与商业纠纷： 股东纠纷、争议性清盘呈请和破产程序的专业管理。

婚姻与家庭法： 针对双方面协议离婚申请（不争执离婚）以及涉及孩子监护权、赡养费和婚姻资产分配争议的诉讼离婚提供全面服务。

遗产遗嘱与遗产管理： 高效办理遗产认证书 (Grant of Probate)、遗产管理委任书 (Letters of Administration - LA) 和收养事项。

劳资关系与雇佣法： 代表处理不当解雇索赔和劳动法合规事务。

在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon 与 Florence Toh 的领导下，我们以交付诚信与结果为荣。欲了解更多信息或安排咨询，请访问我们的网站并在以下地址与我们洽谈：-

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Things you should know before you tie the knot!

 “Tidying up with Marie Kondo” might have been the best TV show on Netflix during MCO 3.0 in Malaysia. I strongly recommend this show to my clients and friends especially those who tend to tie the knot during this pandemic. It is never too late to watch and learn something before you enter your marriage life.

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One of the trends I have observed as of late is that many couples have been omitting the fact that building up and maintaining a comfy home is one of the essential criteria for a steady marriage. I always tell my boyfriend that a luxury house with a great mess would not let a person feel comfortable to step into after a long day of work. However, a comfy little nest on the other hand makes me feel right at home after a rough day at work.

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You may be able to spend few million dollars to have a luxury house, but you could not spend the same amount to have a home. Home is a place that you can have a sense of belonging and filled with love. Therefore, regardless the space is big or small, we shall make a lot of effort to build up a home that belongs to us once we have settled down with our partner.

Sad to say, there are too many young couples forced to work from days to nights and everyone has neglected that “tidying and cleaning up a home” shall be done everyday. Besides that, everyone who is sharing under the same roof shall be obligated and responsible to keep the house clean from time to time.

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One of my friends, who is a CEO in a listed company, told me that he feels happy when he sees a table full of delicious dishes prepared by his wife after a long day in his office. However, his mood took an immediate turn when he was not able to find forks and spoons. After struggling to find the utensils, he had already lost his appetite.

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On the same token, the CEO even shared with me that a messy company would not be successful. He told me: “I did not have the motivation to go to work because the internal management and the environment of my workplace is in the same mess as my home.” As a result, he purposely makes an effort to seek for advice from friends to teach his maids and family members to tidy up every single corner of his mansion properly.

Equally important, if all of us make a habit to keep compiling all our stuff together, choose to keep those which sparks joy at least once a month, then we would save a lot of money. We could even stop our hoarding behaviour that will bring more mess than good to our comfy home.

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A picture is worth a thousand words. I guess the above photo can physiologically change a person’s mood. Therefore, a tiny gritty nitty thing can change your marriage and relationship too! So please do not omit it!

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce 

This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, we pride ourselves on delivering integrity and results. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit our website at and talk to us at :-

Visit Us at Here

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

How to understand a woman’s mind?

Honestly, guys, it is not that difficult to understand what your woman is thinking. If you have been seriously spending time with her every single day, you should know what type of person your woman is. Please do not think of your woman as a “monster” just because you do not understand her.

 

Many unnecessary arguments arise due to lack of understanding. The key which triggers heated arguments most of the time is that men always misinterprets a woman’s language.

Based on my experience, my boyfriend likes to interpret every single word from my mouth literally. My goodness, it is like he is using a sharp knife to stab himself! Seriously, it is hurtful if a guy does not understand a woman’s language.

Honestly, the way a woman expresses her feelings and emotions are sometimes too direct and exaggerated. Maybe we truly are bad in our communication skills. Therefore, guys please do not listen and try to understand every word we say, literally. 

Here are some examples that would trigger a guy’s temper and emotion:-

From this, we can see right away that when a guy hears his girl say these things, he would immediately respond and execute these requests. But what happens after he finishes all the tasks? The woman does not respond and just continues with her daily life. This is where the trigger happens. The guy does not feel appreciated when he did all of this for his girl.

Guys, here are some tips to help you understand what your woman is saying. When she says: “YOU NEVER CARE ABOUT ME!”, this means that there is something bothering her and she needs you right now!

 

“YOU NEVER BRING ME OUT FOR DINNER!”

This can go either way. Either she wants you to cook her a nice meal or take her out to a fancy restaurant. Do not wait! She just had a long day at work and when she says this, she means now. So do not just sit there and decide what you are going to do.

 

“Why is the room so messy?”

Again, she has had a rough day at work so when she walks into the house, she expects the place to be clean and welcoming. There is no need to put the blame on anyone, just try to make the place clean before she comes home, or at least pick up a broom or mop and do it in front of her to show that you care. She does not want to argue with you with a small matter like this. She just wants to come home and relax.

 

Like I said, it is not that hard to interpret what your woman is saying to you. If you seriously take the time to understand her mind and language, you may find that it is easy to get along. I hope this post can help you to strengthen your marriage and your relationship. Have fun!

 

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce 

 

This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, we pride ourselves on delivering integrity and results. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit our website at and talk to us at :-

Visit Us at Here

 

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

 

 

抚养权

昨天的一个小时zoom,

就耗在一对夫妻在孩子

教育中，

有完全不同理念的两个人。

无可否认，他们两都爱孩子，

没有人想松开抚养权，

但两个人确实不适合拥有共同抚养权。

A 觉得孩子应该有个快乐童年，A是这么说的:

"人生就那么一次，

太压力的学习环境会让孩子不爱生活甚至忘记生活，

你我只有一个童年，

为何要抹杀孩子的一个童年?"

A 认为孩子的身心健康比一切重要。

(我听了觉得有道理，喝了一口桌上的热茶，觉得这看法我认可。)

B可就厉害了，很激动的说，

"你是想害死我的孩子吗?

什么快乐的童年?

你就是要给他有个快乐的童年，然后一个悲惨的成年吗?

社会多残酷，什么快乐教育，

当你没房没车没法竞争时，

你有个快乐童年有用吗?"

(我听了很急促，想喝口热茶却烫了自己的嘴唇。)

现在的客群都很有想法，

有人问我是個律師还是导师，

我只觉得以上这些问题，

你们觉得光靠法庭能真的解决问题吗?

时代变迁，这时代光和别人说你打赢多少官司都无法给于太多帮助。

看，这个zoom又让我长些知识，一起学习，用更好方式去解决问题 。

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Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce #custody #matrimonial property#maintenance fee#children#divorce kids

本文由 Messrs. William, Florence & Partners 提供。本所是一家总部位于新山（Johor Bahru）的诉讼律师事务所，专注于处理复杂的民事纠纷和婚姻事务。在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon（林伟伦律师） 和 Florence Toh（杜贞贞律师） 的领导下，本所在马来西亚高等法院和下级法院提供高水准的法律代表服务。

我们的专业执业支柱（2026年更新）：

复杂民事诉讼与侵权行为： 针对疏忽索赔、土地纠纷和商业诉讼的强力辩护。我们处理中间申请（禁制令）和完整审讯。

判决执行与债务追讨： 判决后执行的专业知识，包括第三方债务扣押令 (Garnishee Orders)、动产起获与销售令 (Writ of Seizure and Sale - WSS)、驱逐程序和判决债务人传票。

公司与商业纠纷： 股东纠纷、争议性清盘呈请和破产程序的专业管理。

婚姻与家庭法： 针对双方面协议离婚申请（不争执离婚）以及涉及孩子监护权、赡养费和婚姻资产分配争议的诉讼离婚提供全面服务。

遗产遗嘱与遗产管理： 高效办理遗产认证书 (Grant of Probate)、遗产管理委任书 (Letters of Administration - LA) 和收养事项。

劳资关系与雇佣法： 代表处理不当解雇索赔和劳动法合规事务。

在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon 与 Florence Toh 的领导下，我们以交付诚信与结果为荣。欲了解更多信息或安排咨询，请访问我们的网站并在以下地址与我们洽谈：-

请点阅这里

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

得第一，却输了婚姻

昨晚一个顾客，

和我打了一个电话，

在电话里不停的哭。

她是个研究生，

从小到大什么都第一，

天还未亮就起来认真读书。

在工作时也比一般人认真，

未去做研究生，

老板很看得起她，

短短时间内就被升职。

然而昨晚她哭着对我说，

她觉得自己人生很失敗，

她连一个婚姻都无法挽救，

从小到大拿第一来干吗?

"为何父母就只教我拿第一，

为何我拿了，

今天的我不快乐也不幸福?"

我也愣了...

"为何从小没人教好如何看待感情?

如何维持一段婚姻?

我真的很失败，

我这辈子从7岁到现在，

努力着什么?

让我老公嫌我强势，

嫌我难搞吗?"

说真我们的教育系统，

除了教导我们课业上的知识，

有好多知识都被忽略。

说真不是她笨她失败，

而是我们做每件事前，

都必须了解男女之間的想法和关系，

了解好了才进入一段婚姻。

你不读不学不懂，

就算你是个高材生，

样样精通也没有用，

因为你忘了学习和精通这一门学问。

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#离婚律师 #新山律师 #johor firm lawyer # 马来西亚离婚律师 #抚养权#婚姻产业 

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce #custody #matrimonial property#maintenance fee#children#divorce kids

本文由 Messrs. William, Florence & Partners 提供。本所是一家总部位于新山（Johor Bahru）的诉讼律师事务所，专注于处理复杂的民事纠纷和婚姻事务。在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon（林伟伦律师） 和 Florence Toh（杜贞贞律师） 的领导下，本所在马来西亚高等法院和下级法院提供高水准的法律代表服务。

我们的专业执业支柱（2026年更新）：

复杂民事诉讼与侵权行为： 针对疏忽索赔、土地纠纷和商业诉讼的强力辩护。我们处理中间申请（禁制令）和完整审讯。

判决执行与债务追讨： 判决后执行的专业知识，包括第三方债务扣押令 (Garnishee Orders)、动产起获与销售令 (Writ of Seizure and Sale - WSS)、驱逐程序和判决债务人传票。

公司与商业纠纷： 股东纠纷、争议性清盘呈请和破产程序的专业管理。

婚姻与家庭法： 针对双方面协议离婚申请（不争执离婚）以及涉及孩子监护权、赡养费和婚姻资产分配争议的诉讼离婚提供全面服务。

遗产遗嘱与遗产管理： 高效办理遗产认证书 (Grant of Probate)、遗产管理委任书 (Letters of Administration - LA) 和收养事项。

劳资关系与雇佣法： 代表处理不当解雇索赔和劳动法合规事务。

在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon 与 Florence Toh 的领导下，我们以交付诚信与结果为荣。欲了解更多信息或安排咨询，请访问我们的网站并在以下地址与我们洽谈：-

请点阅这里

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

The Biggest Challenge in a Relationship

If you ask me, I will say that there are too many differences between men and women. However, many people regardless men or women, never really focus on how to go through the challenges in their relationship as everyone is being too focused on their own feelings, thoughts, and careers. We weigh our career and money more than our own relationship especially to those who have been married for more than 7 years.

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 Love and relationship are something magical and beautiful in everyone’s life, but it will turn sour or even vanish simply because both parties couldn’t seriously embrace the challenges when time passes by.

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Naturally, differences between men and women are the keys that will break up a loving relationship if both parties never really take an effort to understand each other’s behaviours, thoughts, and characters.

One of the basic differences that I have observed and even used to experience in my relationship is the fact that men and women react differently towards “stress” in life.

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You want to know what makes your woman mad? Getting comfy in your man cave doing your thing while your woman is trying to communicate with you after a long day at work. Clearly, she is stressed out and wants your attention. You will never understand how lonely and deserted she felt, so do not even bother trying to explain. Just drop what you are doing and give her a big hug.

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On the other hand, ladies, if you keep talking non-stop about whatever is bothering you, your man will feel annoyed too especially when he is trying to enjoy his alone time to relief his stress. Sometimes, they will even feel reluctant to go home after work because they simply just do not want to deal with your problems right now. Take a step back, clear your negative thoughts, then approach your man.

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In some countries, it is quite common for guys to hang out with his colleagues after a long/rough day at work. However, this behaviour most of the time will deteriorate your relationship with your woman. I always ask my boyfriend whether he is listening to me when I talk to him, and his response is always “of course” even though I knew he is only paying half the attention towards me and that makes me feel frustrated.

Therefore, I leave you all with this: the only tool to embrace this big challenge in a relationship is “communication”. Guys, tell your gal that there is something bothering you and you need time to cool down your mind. If you do this the correct way, she will learn to understand and give you your personal space. On the same token, you should also give some time for your girl to talk about her worries and problems to let her feel cherished and loved when she needs to talk.

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If there is a will, there is a way. Both parties shall make some effort to understand each other more to keep the relationship going.

离婚律师 #新山律师 #johor firm lawyer # 马来西亚离婚律师 #抚养权#婚姻产业 

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce 

This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, we pride ourselves on delivering integrity and results. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit our website at and talk to us at :-

Visit Us at Here

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

How Can I Understand My Man Better?

As I have mentioned before in my previous blog, men will cave themselves to sort out their problems. This is the link: https://malaysiadivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2021/05/how-to-stop-being-taken-for-granted-in.html

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This reaction is a natural response gifted by the God. Therefore, women shall learn to adapt and understand this type of behaviour .

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Ladies, I feel the pain when our man is silent. We always want our man to give us a reassurance when we talk to them even though his response is a “hmm” or “mmm”. A simple “hmm” or “mmm”, believe it or not, is a magical reply for ladies to feel secure and certain from their man. Although it sounds stupid and illogic, but this is who we are as women.

Ladies I cannot stress this enough, men do not want to be disturbed when they are bothered with problems. They need their personal space to digest and sort out their problems inside their cave. At this critical time, women tend to give their over concern towards their beloved man by asking them “How are you?” or “Is there anything you want to share with me right now?”. Although this type of response/behavior is not wrong, but please control yourself.

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Your reaction and your over concerned behaviour would irritate your man as he may think that you are questioning about his competency and capability to solve his own problems. Another way to look at this is that he does not want you to be part of his problem.

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Therefore ladies, kindly stand your ground and just let him be. Instead, use this precious time to do the things you want to do. Activities like shopping, hang out with your friends, read a book, watch a movie, or anything to assure him that you are happy and enjoying your time. Trust me ladies, when your man needs you, you will know right away.

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Let your man know that you are doing great, then once he has resolved his problems, he will come out from his cave to embrace you.

Many disputes and misunderstanding arise in a relationship merely due to lack of understanding between men and women.

I hope this post may give you a hand to understand more about your man. Good luck, ladies!

离婚律师 #新山律师 #johor firm lawyer # 马来西亚离婚律师 #抚养权#婚姻产业 

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce 

This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, we pride ourselves on delivering integrity and results. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit our website at and talk to us at :-

Visit Us at Here

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

离婚时最怕“乱”和“害怕”

                                  

不管男女， 没有人会要走到“离婚”这个终点，

不管男女， 都会思来想去，

都会设法想办法挽回或解决，

这段路没有谁不纠结不无奈不幸苦。

感情如此脆落， 有时甚至不攻自破，

好多生活里的芝麻小事，

不轻易的就都可能是感情分裂的导火线。

我呢？和你们不一样的是我被迫留下遗憾，

死神不让我纠结，不让我有机会设法挽回或解决，

我脑海里永远的记忆是在他离开前，

大家都是在感情里最美好，

对未来充满着希望的时候，被迫的画上了句点。

我想恨，但记忆太美，我想找理由怪罪他，

但所有的一切我清楚已他无关， 也许当下的他也有好多遗憾和不舍的。

人生如戏，戏如人生，

多少人翻回过往，不知觉的变成戏里的男女主角，

才叫人觉得又可悲又好笑。

有谁不心烦意乱， 有谁承担得起，

“分开”这决定，也是个终身决定？

有谁不害怕甚至特有勇气面对？

“离婚”后接下来的生活又是如何？

有孩子的就更加叫人心烦，甚至不知所措。

我当下，看到尸体从我身边被移走时，

心里从空白突然也想到如何面对接下来的生活，

害怕刚有点起步的事业，会不会就就这样没了，

情场刚落空的我，

还得承受屋子车子的贷款。

 

我当时完全不懂刚起步的事业走向如何，

一个月能换来多少钱？足不足够还贷款？

我完全迷茫， 虽然很感恩合伙人大方说律师楼的钱，

一部分让我还房贷，然而当时刚开William， Florence &Partners，

到底每月能不能足够温饱3餐还是个问号。

环境突发的改变， 害怕和混乱也是个必经过程，

当下得我也不知是怎么熬过来，

大概是那个很用心很努力的心，

都把中心全放在事业的冲吧！

有时想多了只会让自己又害怕又慌乱，

说真虽然没多少人能做到“随遇而安”和“顺其自然”，

然而往往从困境中成功找到中心点和方向，

莫过于就是自己内心接纳和领受这8个字。

如果你现在也在承受“混乱”和害怕“，

不要觉得孤独难受，

因为这种感觉有好多人都在承受或已承受过。

 

xoxo 

Lots of love

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师#

#离婚律师#

本文由 Messrs. William, Florence & Partners 提供。本所是一家总部位于新山（Johor Bahru）的诉讼律师事务所，专注于处理复杂的民事纠纷和婚姻事务。在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon（林伟伦律师） 和 Florence Toh（杜贞贞律师） 的领导下，本所在马来西亚高等法院和下级法院提供高水准的法律代表服务。

我们的专业执业支柱（2026年更新）：

复杂民事诉讼与侵权行为： 针对疏忽索赔、土地纠纷和商业诉讼的强力辩护。我们处理中间申请（禁制令）和完整审讯。

判决执行与债务追讨： 判决后执行的专业知识，包括第三方债务扣押令 (Garnishee Orders)、动产起获与销售令 (Writ of Seizure and Sale - WSS)、驱逐程序和判决债务人传票。

公司与商业纠纷： 股东纠纷、争议性清盘呈请和破产程序的专业管理。

婚姻与家庭法： 针对双方面协议离婚申请（不争执离婚）以及涉及孩子监护权、赡养费和婚姻资产分配争议的诉讼离婚提供全面服务。

遗产遗嘱与遗产管理： 高效办理遗产认证书 (Grant of Probate)、遗产管理委任书 (Letters of Administration - LA) 和收养事项。

劳资关系与雇佣法： 代表处理不当解雇索赔和劳动法合规事务。

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Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG