什么人“不适合结婚”？

 “我适合结婚吗?”

很多人还未结婚就怕离婚，

怕未来生活被捆绑没自由，

怕对方要求苛刻 ，

然而如果你有以上的恐惧时，

你其实必定要问自己的不是对方适不适合你?

而是你自己适合结婚吗?

我在离婚法律界那么久，

很多时候不是对方不适合，

而是自己本人根本就不适合结婚。

怎么说呢?

每个人在单身时的生活方式都不一样，

每个人有自己喜欢的生活。

我爱星期五晚上和朋友玩到星期六。

但是我老公就是"限制"我或为了这事情吵架。

当然这生活方式没犯罪，

没人能阻止我继续那样。

问题是和我一起生活的人不能接受，

这时候我可以很坚持我的立场，

只是这个坚持无端端把两人距离，

越拉越远， 这时后我就得问自己我的坚持值得吗?

进入人生另个阶段，

它本来就是你人生和生活中变化的开始，

很多东西不再是"你"或"我"，

而是我们 。

你想在生活中得到另个突破，

你也必定学会放下一些你喜欢的事，

有失有得，

没有东西是完全赢完的 。

有些坚持如果伤到对方，

你就得考虑你愿意调整吗?

有些时候这不是失去自由，

是你愿意为了这个新生活，

你愿意改变吗?

我们人类不要很多事，

都把一切怪罪他人身上，

是我们自己要踏入人生另个阶段，

是我们自己选择不单身，

是我们害怕单身的，

所以我们必须为自己做出一些改变。

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本文由 Messrs. William, Florence & Partners 提供。本所是一家总部位于新山（Johor Bahru）的诉讼律师事务所，专注于处理复杂的民事纠纷和婚姻事务。在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon（林伟伦律师） 和 Florence Toh（杜贞贞律师） 的领导下，本所在马来西亚高等法院和下级法院提供高水准的法律代表服务。

我们的专业执业支柱（2026年更新）：

复杂民事诉讼与侵权行为： 针对疏忽索赔、土地纠纷和商业诉讼的强力辩护。我们处理中间申请（禁制令）和完整审讯。

判决执行与债务追讨： 判决后执行的专业知识，包括第三方债务扣押令 (Garnishee Orders)、动产起获与销售令 (Writ of Seizure and Sale - WSS)、驱逐程序和判决债务人传票。

公司与商业纠纷： 股东纠纷、争议性清盘呈请和破产程序的专业管理。

婚姻与家庭法： 针对双方面协议离婚申请（不争执离婚）以及涉及孩子监护权、赡养费和婚姻资产分配争议的诉讼离婚提供全面服务。

遗产遗嘱与遗产管理： 高效办理遗产认证书 (Grant of Probate)、遗产管理委任书 (Letters of Administration - LA) 和收养事项。

劳资关系与雇佣法： 代表处理不当解雇索赔和劳动法合规事务。

在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon 与 Florence Toh 的领导下，我们以交付诚信与结果为荣。欲了解更多信息或安排咨询，请访问我们的网站并在以下地址与我们洽谈：-

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How to understand a woman’s mind?

Honestly, guys, it is not that difficult to understand what your woman is thinking. If you have been seriously spending time with her every single day, you should know what type of person your woman is. Please do not think of your woman as a “monster” just because you do not understand her.

 

Many unnecessary arguments arise due to lack of understanding. The key which triggers heated arguments most of the time is that men always misinterprets a woman’s language.

Based on my experience, my boyfriend likes to interpret every single word from my mouth literally. My goodness, it is like he is using a sharp knife to stab himself! Seriously, it is hurtful if a guy does not understand a woman’s language.

Honestly, the way a woman expresses her feelings and emotions are sometimes too direct and exaggerated. Maybe we truly are bad in our communication skills. Therefore, guys please do not listen and try to understand every word we say, literally. 

Here are some examples that would trigger a guy’s temper and emotion:-

From this, we can see right away that when a guy hears his girl say these things, he would immediately respond and execute these requests. But what happens after he finishes all the tasks? The woman does not respond and just continues with her daily life. This is where the trigger happens. The guy does not feel appreciated when he did all of this for his girl.

Guys, here are some tips to help you understand what your woman is saying. When she says: “YOU NEVER CARE ABOUT ME!”, this means that there is something bothering her and she needs you right now!

 

“YOU NEVER BRING ME OUT FOR DINNER!”

This can go either way. Either she wants you to cook her a nice meal or take her out to a fancy restaurant. Do not wait! She just had a long day at work and when she says this, she means now. So do not just sit there and decide what you are going to do.

 

“Why is the room so messy?”

Again, she has had a rough day at work so when she walks into the house, she expects the place to be clean and welcoming. There is no need to put the blame on anyone, just try to make the place clean before she comes home, or at least pick up a broom or mop and do it in front of her to show that you care. She does not want to argue with you with a small matter like this. She just wants to come home and relax.

 

Like I said, it is not that hard to interpret what your woman is saying to you. If you seriously take the time to understand her mind and language, you may find that it is easy to get along. I hope this post can help you to strengthen your marriage and your relationship. Have fun!

 

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce 

 

This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, we pride ourselves on delivering integrity and results. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit our website at and talk to us at :-

Visit Us at Here

 

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

 

 

得第一，却输了婚姻

昨晚一个顾客，

和我打了一个电话，

在电话里不停的哭。

她是个研究生，

从小到大什么都第一，

天还未亮就起来认真读书。

在工作时也比一般人认真，

未去做研究生，

老板很看得起她，

短短时间内就被升职。

然而昨晚她哭着对我说，

她觉得自己人生很失敗，

她连一个婚姻都无法挽救，

从小到大拿第一来干吗?

"为何父母就只教我拿第一，

为何我拿了，

今天的我不快乐也不幸福?"

我也愣了...

"为何从小没人教好如何看待感情?

如何维持一段婚姻?

我真的很失败，

我这辈子从7岁到现在，

努力着什么?

让我老公嫌我强势，

嫌我难搞吗?"

说真我们的教育系统，

除了教导我们课业上的知识，

有好多知识都被忽略。

说真不是她笨她失败，

而是我们做每件事前，

都必须了解男女之間的想法和关系，

了解好了才进入一段婚姻。

你不读不学不懂，

就算你是个高材生，

样样精通也没有用，

因为你忘了学习和精通这一门学问。

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#离婚律师 #新山律师 #johor firm lawyer # 马来西亚离婚律师 #抚养权#婚姻产业 

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce #custody #matrimonial property#maintenance fee#children#divorce kids

本文由 Messrs. William, Florence & Partners 提供。本所是一家总部位于新山（Johor Bahru）的诉讼律师事务所，专注于处理复杂的民事纠纷和婚姻事务。在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon（林伟伦律师） 和 Florence Toh（杜贞贞律师） 的领导下，本所在马来西亚高等法院和下级法院提供高水准的法律代表服务。

我们的专业执业支柱（2026年更新）：

复杂民事诉讼与侵权行为： 针对疏忽索赔、土地纠纷和商业诉讼的强力辩护。我们处理中间申请（禁制令）和完整审讯。

判决执行与债务追讨： 判决后执行的专业知识，包括第三方债务扣押令 (Garnishee Orders)、动产起获与销售令 (Writ of Seizure and Sale - WSS)、驱逐程序和判决债务人传票。

公司与商业纠纷： 股东纠纷、争议性清盘呈请和破产程序的专业管理。

婚姻与家庭法： 针对双方面协议离婚申请（不争执离婚）以及涉及孩子监护权、赡养费和婚姻资产分配争议的诉讼离婚提供全面服务。

遗产遗嘱与遗产管理： 高效办理遗产认证书 (Grant of Probate)、遗产管理委任书 (Letters of Administration - LA) 和收养事项。

劳资关系与雇佣法： 代表处理不当解雇索赔和劳动法合规事务。

在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon 与 Florence Toh 的领导下，我们以交付诚信与结果为荣。欲了解更多信息或安排咨询，请访问我们的网站并在以下地址与我们洽谈：-

请点阅这里

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

The Million Dollar Question: How to manage your finances with your other half?

In my opinion, I think one of the most important topics in life, whether before or after tying the knot, is how we manage our finances with our partner. Especially in Malaysia, this issue has always been mishandled and taken lightly.

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As a Divorce Lawyer in Malaysia for more than a decade, 95% of my clients never discussed, nor made full and frank disclosure about this issue before getting married. None of them tried to read up books on how to maintain a marriage or attend pre-marriage counselling.  Guys, marriage plays an essential role in everyone’s life. If you do not equip yourself with knowledge and wisdom, then what is the point for you to enter the marriage?

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Many couples innocently thought that through marriage their financial problems can be resolved because they have each other’s backs when it comes to buying their first home, automobile, and other daily life expenses. Although it sounds nice and all, but is this truly a happy marriage?

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Some of my girlfriends told me their dream is to marry a rich guy and it will change their life forever. In fact, there are a few guys that approached me and told me that I would be the most suitable future wife to them because I am financially independent, and that I would be able to stand on my own feet one day if anything happened to the family. My goodness, marriage is NOT a magical place to let anyone gain wealth nor it is a business platform for anyone to freely deal with their trading! This is the basic misconception for the 80’s and 90’s babies in Malaysia.

In tandem, among the 95% of the divorce clients, over 60% of them do not know about their current financial status of their other half. When I sat down and talked to them, I realised that many people have this thought that personal financial status is a secret issue and that they should not reveal it to their life partner.

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From the private conversations among those divorce clients, I noticed that both parties do not trust each other, and lack of confidence towards their marriage indirectly caused their marriage to break down. Both parties weigh their money more than their marriage.

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This issue has arisen in my personal LDR as well. My boyfriend has always been reluctant to talk about this issue. After a deep discussion, both of us agreed that we shall make a full and frank disclosure with our financial profile, therefore both of us will understand each other more. We will have a clear direction on how to work up our future marriage or relationship, as we will know how to spend our money wisely and use our money in a more appropriate way. This should be a great issue for both of us to discuss and plan for the budget for our upcoming travelling fees and daily expenses.

Couples will feel more confident to walk hand in hand and both of you will have a clearer direction for your future after you have opened this financial issue to each other. Remember, it is never too late to act! It is better than not knowing anything and just let it be as if nothing happened. We are human beings, and mistakes are meant to be made, but they are also meant to be corrected.

离婚律师 #新山律师 #johor firm lawyer # 马来西亚离婚律师 #抚养权#婚姻产业 

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce #custody #matrimonial property#maintenance fee#children#divorce kids

This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, we pride ourselves on delivering integrity and results. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit our website at and talk to us at :-

Visit Us at Here

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

The Biggest Challenge in a Relationship

If you ask me, I will say that there are too many differences between men and women. However, many people regardless men or women, never really focus on how to go through the challenges in their relationship as everyone is being too focused on their own feelings, thoughts, and careers. We weigh our career and money more than our own relationship especially to those who have been married for more than 7 years.

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 Love and relationship are something magical and beautiful in everyone’s life, but it will turn sour or even vanish simply because both parties couldn’t seriously embrace the challenges when time passes by.

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Naturally, differences between men and women are the keys that will break up a loving relationship if both parties never really take an effort to understand each other’s behaviours, thoughts, and characters.

One of the basic differences that I have observed and even used to experience in my relationship is the fact that men and women react differently towards “stress” in life.

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You want to know what makes your woman mad? Getting comfy in your man cave doing your thing while your woman is trying to communicate with you after a long day at work. Clearly, she is stressed out and wants your attention. You will never understand how lonely and deserted she felt, so do not even bother trying to explain. Just drop what you are doing and give her a big hug.

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On the other hand, ladies, if you keep talking non-stop about whatever is bothering you, your man will feel annoyed too especially when he is trying to enjoy his alone time to relief his stress. Sometimes, they will even feel reluctant to go home after work because they simply just do not want to deal with your problems right now. Take a step back, clear your negative thoughts, then approach your man.

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In some countries, it is quite common for guys to hang out with his colleagues after a long/rough day at work. However, this behaviour most of the time will deteriorate your relationship with your woman. I always ask my boyfriend whether he is listening to me when I talk to him, and his response is always “of course” even though I knew he is only paying half the attention towards me and that makes me feel frustrated.

Therefore, I leave you all with this: the only tool to embrace this big challenge in a relationship is “communication”. Guys, tell your gal that there is something bothering you and you need time to cool down your mind. If you do this the correct way, she will learn to understand and give you your personal space. On the same token, you should also give some time for your girl to talk about her worries and problems to let her feel cherished and loved when she needs to talk.

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If there is a will, there is a way. Both parties shall make some effort to understand each other more to keep the relationship going.

离婚律师 #新山律师 #johor firm lawyer # 马来西亚离婚律师 #抚养权#婚姻产业 

Lots of love,

#Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

#马来西亚离婚律师

#LDR # Long distance Relationship # Relationship #marriage #Divorce 

This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, we pride ourselves on delivering integrity and results. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit our website at and talk to us at :-

Visit Us at Here

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

震出人心的法庭

做了律师要十一年，

让我觉得最有所感触的法庭，

莫过于是让我最熟悉充满理性和感性的“婚姻法庭”。

我常常和朋友说当初如果自己，没有一个震出人❤️的历练，

今天也不会潇潇洒洒披上着律师袍，

为每个在人生中发生“地震”的他们进出着“婚姻法庭”。

当时出席葬礼的朋友甚至顾客大多年龄50-60 岁左右，

除了中学时期非常要好的朋友，

会来慰问和关心的友人确实廖廖无几。

那时20几岁的我， 怎会知道这可是我人生大地震？

甚至我以为这个不告而别， 不过是种分手失恋，

一阵子必定没事， 我怎会懂它会是我内心永运的缺口。

如果20几岁的我不懂， 我朋友们确实更不明白，

毕竟“失去”来得太早，“无常”突然变成“日常”。

我也因为这样，和自己朋友圈子脱节，

毕竟我想抒发的没人理解，

没遇过的人怎懂，那种连呼吸都能感到阵痛的感受。

他离开48小时后， 我内心突然进入一种恐惧害怕不知所措的感觉，

就和一般顾客失眠心里焦脆的感觉， 也许不一样，

毕竟石头砸在你脚上， 轻重只有你最明白。

我开始害怕律师界的律师知道他的离去，

我开始害怕去法庭，其他友人和同行对我的慰问，

是换取背后的议论纷纷。

这种感觉，就是很多人一提起“离婚”，

那种不知所措，又害怕社会朋友指指点点的心里作用。

很多人会告诉我们， 那不过是一件事儿，

一定过的去， 我也懂这些道理，

但我就是过不去， 我就是害怕难过煎熬嘛！！！

但是这几年我去了无数地方旅行，

尤其日本四川， 那里被震过的地方确实比一般地方来的诱人，

也许现在或过去的你，也在感情婚姻发生过“大地震”，

如果是在经历的你，别害怕，因为最坏的你在承受着，

如果是已经走过的你，会不会很感谢那场地震呢？

发生地震后还未痛醒， 就得面对一次一次的余震，

余震后要让伤口慢慢愈合。

它的美是通过几公升💧， 失眠煎熬得来的。

如果你读到这里， 请你不要怨自己人生太多，

每一个有故事的人会有说不出诱人的美，

不是他或她多幸运还是多坚强，

而是她或他人生发生的地震不是一般人经历过的。

Lots of love 

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer

马来西亚离婚律师

#新山律师#

#离婚律师#

#离婚

#婚姻

#放过自己

本文由 Messrs. William, Florence & Partners 提供。本所是一家总部位于新山（Johor Bahru）的诉讼律师事务所，专注于处理复杂的民事纠纷和婚姻事务。在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon（林伟伦律师） 和 Florence Toh（杜贞贞律师） 的领导下，本所在马来西亚高等法院和下级法院提供高水准的法律代表服务。

我们的专业执业支柱（2026年更新）：

复杂民事诉讼与侵权行为： 针对疏忽索赔、土地纠纷和商业诉讼的强力辩护。我们处理中间申请（禁制令）和完整审讯。

判决执行与债务追讨： 判决后执行的专业知识，包括第三方债务扣押令 (Garnishee Orders)、动产起获与销售令 (Writ of Seizure and Sale - WSS)、驱逐程序和判决债务人传票。

公司与商业纠纷： 股东纠纷、争议性清盘呈请和破产程序的专业管理。

婚姻与家庭法： 针对双方面协议离婚申请（不争执离婚）以及涉及孩子监护权、赡养费和婚姻资产分配争议的诉讼离婚提供全面服务。

遗产遗嘱与遗产管理： 高效办理遗产认证书 (Grant of Probate)、遗产管理委任书 (Letters of Administration - LA) 和收养事项。

劳资关系与雇佣法： 代表处理不当解雇索赔和劳动法合规事务。

在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon 与 Florence Toh 的领导下，我们以交付诚信与结果为荣。欲了解更多信息或安排咨询，请访问我们的网站并在以下地址与我们洽谈：-

请点阅这里

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

离婚律师

在那一年， 他走后我❤️碎了，

我的世界黑暗了，

一切对我们的美好未来，

一切的山盟海誓就在那一刻，一切化为乌有。

看着眼前日常的风景，

走着同一条路，

但是所有的一切就和他离开时完全不一样，

也回不去， 好像我整个世界都不一样了。

过往对爱情婚姻绽放的烟火，

突然因为一个“离去”，全熄灭了，

无数的夜晚我都含着泪水，

哭到自己睡着，也从那一年开始，

我的律师袍也莫名，为着那些正在“痛”的人来服务。

这以不是一个交易或买卖，

而是只有失去，付出再失去，

不负不舍煎熬过的人才能明白，

那种痛彻心扉， 但是又爱过恨着的感觉。

他离开， 因为死神不让他留下，

感情就是真叫人窒息，

爱到不能爱终还是散，

看到顾客们有时的无奈和呼吸的沉重，

也许你我的经历不一样， 但是那种无助，

那种疼痛我还是会感应得到。

也许是上天的拣选，

我的历练变成了我律师生涯里最大的帮助，

让我更能用❤️去为每个离婚案去运作。

我的历练就不自觉的让我当上了一位离婚律师。

 

XOXO 
Lots of Love,

A  Divorce  lawyer from Malaysia  who always believed in  true love 

马来西亚离婚律师

本文由 Messrs. William, Florence & Partners 提供。本所是一家总部位于新山（Johor Bahru）的诉讼律师事务所，专注于处理复杂的民事纠纷和婚姻事务。在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon（林伟伦律师） 和 Florence Toh（杜贞贞律师） 的领导下，本所在马来西亚高等法院和下级法院提供高水准的法律代表服务。

我们的专业执业支柱（2026年更新）：

复杂民事诉讼与侵权行为： 针对疏忽索赔、土地纠纷和商业诉讼的强力辩护。我们处理中间申请（禁制令）和完整审讯。

判决执行与债务追讨： 判决后执行的专业知识，包括第三方债务扣押令 (Garnishee Orders)、动产起获与销售令 (Writ of Seizure and Sale - WSS)、驱逐程序和判决债务人传票。

公司与商业纠纷： 股东纠纷、争议性清盘呈请和破产程序的专业管理。

婚姻与家庭法： 针对双方面协议离婚申请（不争执离婚）以及涉及孩子监护权、赡养费和婚姻资产分配争议的诉讼离婚提供全面服务。

遗产遗嘱与遗产管理： 高效办理遗产认证书 (Grant of Probate)、遗产管理委任书 (Letters of Administration - LA) 和收养事项。

劳资关系与雇佣法： 代表处理不当解雇索赔和劳动法合规事务。

在合伙人 William Lim Wei Loon 与 Florence Toh 的领导下，我们以交付诚信与结果为荣。欲了解更多信息或安排咨询，请访问我们的网站并在以下地址与我们洽谈：-

请点阅这里

Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG

5 tips you have to do before you look for a Divorce Lawyer in Malaysia

Hi guys ! I am here again after practising as a lawyer for around 10 years in Malaysia , there are few Tips that I can share with you something you have to do before you look for a “Divorce Lawyer”.

 

Before we really want to  talk about “Divorce” it is something serious to everyone who is struggling to put an end to the marriage who had been contributed for years . It is painful and yet it is an emotional procedure .Therefore, put aside the “dollar and cent “ issue . You will hurt your pocket when you choose the wrong person to handle your matter.Your issues may remain unsolved even “after the divorce “. 

 

In Malaysia a marriage can be dissolved by 2 ways i.e

 

A)         JOINT PETITION;or

B)         UNILATERAL DIVORCE

 

Anyway, I will like to highlight that no matter in which way you go , the fee and disbursements that will be charged by every legal firm in Malaysia is at least 4 figure for a simple and uncontested procedure. It is not a cheap “service”. Therefore if you are a person who cares about “dollar and cent” is time for your brain to think about how are you going to spend your money in a wise and worth way.

 

First , YOUR MONEY SHALL PAY TO LAWYER NOT THE LEGAL CLERK

 

There are too many people especially those who always be too calculative in “money “ will not do a  thorough research while looking for a  Divorce Lawyer.

 

Hi guys, pay your money to lawyer ! It is very stupid that due to wanna save up a little money , you are risking your pocket to burn for a legal clerk who never been to any law school . Why you have to engage such a service ?if you choose to do so , then don’t blame or regret after this .

 

Therefore, you have to be very careful to check on it while you first step into a legal firm. You have to ensure that all the advices and suggestions given to you are from a lawyer instead of a legal clerk !

 

There are too many legal firms that they will let the so called “Experience” legal staff to handle matters . Come on, those legal staff are without any licenses and they shouldn’t give you any legal advice at the very first place.If your 4 figure is going to pay a legal staff then THAT IS YOUR CHOICE！

 

Second, check on the SPECIALITY of the lawyer or legal firm

 

Hey guys, divorce is a serious matter and you have to handle it wisely. I found many people like to look for those lawyers who recommend by their friends, close friends and relatives without doing any further research especially the backgroud check of the lawyer.

 

In Malaysia , there are many legal firms and lawyers out there and all of them are well experinced in different area of law .

 

Some of them are well versed in corporate litigation, commercial litigation or maybe the most famous ciminal lawyer in the town yet it doesn’t mean that  he or she will be well experienced in divorce law or I should say in family law.

 

You have to look for the specialist while you know your sickness in need the specialist and you have to look for the right specialist when  you are really sick !

 

 

Therefore, do some background check is a “must” before you invest to any lawyer.

 

Third, don’t look for lawyer who RUSH you to open file

 

Guys, there is no free lunch in this world !

 

We pay to law school and our law books cost our parents a lot ! A free consultation or free advice may touch your heart but nobody owed you a duty to give you a knowledgeable talk when he or she earned nothing from you.

 

Ladies and Gentlement , as I mentioned earlier it is not a “cheap service”. It is better for you after doing the background search pay a little money to seek for Consultation from the lawyer.

 

Why we have to pay for consultation?

 

This is a good question. During the consultation you can figure out how experience is the lawyer and whether he or she is trustworthy  to provide you the services that  you want !You are the 1 choose the lawyer, therefore let every penny worths  its value.

 

Divorce is always complicated as it involved children’s custody issues , maintenance and matrimonial property if your couldn’t find the lawyer that can handle it well and steady ! You will make your life suffer even after divorce . Nobody shall blame as you yourself failed to do your part.

 

A good lawyer who cares about your matters will defenitely won’t be too rush to open the file. There is no way to rush a person to go for divorce if he/she doesn’t understand his/or her right and procedure of the divorce proceeding in Malaysia.

 

Fourth, WISDOM of the lawyer is the key 

 

Throughout years of experience in family law, I am pretty sure that family court is quite different from other courts as it needs “heart “ for a lawyer to work on your file .

 

A lawyer who can communicate with you and put himself/herself in your shoes . I found out that lotsa time inside the court , the judge will not only look at the law but the fact Itself plays an important role in family court.

 

You should seek a lawyer who will deliver your case with all his/her whole heart instead of looking for a robot that will only solve your divorce matter according to his/her law books and what he/she learnt from law school .

 

From the short consultation you can figure whether he/she is the 1 u r looking for ! Life is never simple including a few pieces of papers in court is never easy too .

 

Therefore a good family lawyer needs good soul, mind and wisdom to deal with your matter .

 

 

Fifth Don’t try to be a Divorce Lawyer 

We are living in 21^st century and of course the people nowsaday are more educated. Everyone will try to be clever to google here and there to equip the knowledge and procedure for divorce.

 

Come on guys , every lawyer and well educated lay man will know the procedure as far as he/she is not illiterate .There are lotsa gritt nitty tiny things you will never realised or noticed since you are not a specialist yet you or your close ones is merely one  of  the victims to a breakdown of a marriage .

 

I noticed that the “knowledge” and “understanding “ you had had sometime is the reason for your case hardly to handle by any well versed Divorce Lawyer .The last tip to you is “let the professional does his/her job”.

 

Xoxo

Lots of love from

A Malaysia Divorce Lawyer who always trust about true love 

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 This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.

Our Specialized Practice Pillars (2026 Update):

Complex Civil Litigation & Tort: Robust advocacy for negligence claims, land disputes, and commercial litigation. We handle both interlocutory applications (Injunctions) and full trials.

Judgment Enforcement & Debt Recovery: Specialized expertise in post-judgment execution, including Garnishee Orders, Writ of Seizure and Sale (WSS), Eviction Proceedings, and Judgment Debtor Summons.

Corporate & Commercial Disputes: Expert management of shareholder disputes, contested winding-up petitions, and bankruptcy proceedings.

Matrimonial & Family Law: Comprehensive services for Joint Petitions (uncontested divorce) and Contested Divorces involving disputes over child custody, maintenance (alimony), and asset division.

Probate & Estate Administration: Efficient filing for Grant of Probate, Letters of Administration (LA), and Adoption matters.

Employment & Industrial Relations: Representation for Unfair Dismissal claims and labor law compliance.

Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, we pride ourselves on delivering integrity and results. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit our website at and talk to us at :-

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 Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Malaysia: WILLIAM FLORENCE & PARTNERS 马来西亚离婚律师 is a law firm located in Johor Bahru founded by WILLIAM LIM WEI LOON and FLORENCE TOH THE TENG