Everyone looks for different things to fill up their love tank. The only few things to fill up my love tank, other than receiving words of encouragement from my loved ones, are gifts! That’s why I told Joe that if you want the keys my heart, then you better prepare gifts for me. Not just for my birthday, but also for our monthly anniversaries, annual anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, 520, you name it!
Many Divorce clients told me that after getting married, they started celebrating special days and stopped offering gifts to each other. Many of them believe it is costly and that they cannot afford to continue surprising the other half, especially those who rarely purchase new items for personal use. They believe that purchasing gifts is unnecessary and a waste of money.
Hey guys, it's important to fill each other's love tanks in a relationship because it's a form of emotional need. If your other half thinks it's necessary, you should make an effort to fulfil it in order to keep your relationship alive. “You have to treat it like a long-term investment because it is a part of your life.” is what I always tell my clients. “Just treat it like a blue-chip asset and you will get a return once you have filled up your partner's love tank.”
Aside from that, don't get too caught up in the "price tag" of your gift. One of my clients often complains to me that she has helped her husband clean the house and served him on the bed, but that she has received little recognition in her marriage. She was resentful of her husband's constant take-for-granted attitude. When I asked her what she expected from her husband to demonstrate his love for her, she told me that after they married, he never took her out to dinner and had failed to surprise her for years. This brief discussion demonstrates that this lady needs a gift and quality time to replenish her love tank.
In my relationship, too, a gift, whether cheap or costly, is a magical thing. A simple gift has the power to brighten my day. It's also best to be honest with our other half and tell him or her what we need to fill up our love tank. Alternatively, if we are unsure of what we want, we can keep asking ourselves what makes us happier and better after our other half does something nice for us in our everyday lives.
That’s it for me! Until the next time we meet, try to spice up your relationship by sending each other some gifts! Sometimes, even handmade gifts such as a birthday card made by yours truly, are valuable too!
Lots of love,
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