Misunderstandings are basically caused by misconceptions in a relationship. One of the most obvious would be how one interprets the words “togetherness” and “proximity”.
I have many divorce couples told me that they have spent a lot of time being together at home, but the love between each other no longer exists. They had tried different methods to make up their marriage by spending time with their life partner.
However, when I asked them in depth, I realised that many of them watch TV inside living room together after work, but their main focus is on the TV programme rather than accompanying each other. They date each other to dine out every weekend, but all of them spend more time to look around the surroundings inside the restaurant than gaze into each other’s eyes and talk.
Guys, this is a serious misunderstanding among couples when you do not understand or you are confused with the following words in a relationship:
Every couple should spend quality time by giving each other undivided attention everyday. Joe always tells me that we shall set a rule, i.e., we have to talk to each other through phone for at least 35 minutes a day with an undivided attention. What that means is for example, when you are having lunch with me, I expect you to have lunch with me. Whether we are talking to each other about how great the food is, the restaurant vibes, at least we are focused on each other. If I catch you with your eyes on your handphone all the time, then I know your attention is diluted and you don’t even care about our lunch date.
“Proximity” is not what we want. We need “togetherness”, especially during unprecedented times. Many couples thought that keeping a distance is sufficient to work out a relationship, but in reality, it is wrong. Your love tank couldn’t fill up because you chose to be distant in your relationship. I know we have the pandemic and need to have social distancing, but this is different! You need your lover, and your lover needs you too!
Alright guys, that’s enough for today. Hope you have a wonderful day 😊
Lots of love,
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