Many people hate being sad, but they are unsure about what can make them feel loved and happy. Some of us are aware that our love tank is about to run out, and we are urgently seeking something to replenish it, but we have lost our way. Guys, don't be too concerned if you lose your way, it happens to everyone. Our primary language of love will shift from time to time in the interim.
When I ask Joe what I can do to help him fill up his love tank, he rarely gives me a straight answer. Since we are still in a LDR, I spent a lot of time observing his primary language. Anyway, I've noticed from many video chats with him that he is always teaching me how to cook and bake cakes. At first, I am grateful to him because his words are powerful and inspires me to develop my culinary skills by allowing me to step outside of my comfort zone and try something new in the kitchen. After that, I realised that “Act of Service” is his primary love language. Other than spending quality time to do something together, he prefers his other half to cook him meals to make him feel cherished and respected.
However, I despise preparing meals for everyone, including myself. To me, rushing in and out of the kitchen is a waste of energy. The only thing that motivates me to learn to cook from my mother during MCO is that I have to constantly remind myself that I should learn to cook for him to fill up his love tank because it is one of the ways that I can show my love for him. I'm not doing this to fill my love tank, but to fill his. Well, maybe this is reality and we must do more for our loved ones rather than being too preoccupied with our own interests and habits.
Each of us has a different primary love language. My mother constantly chastises my father for being too lazy to do housework at home. My mother would often speak to my father in a sweet tone after he assisted in taking out the garbage or cleaning up the yard. My mother's primary language of affection, as far as I can tell, is "Act of Service."
Guys, you should inquire as to what you can do to replenish your partner's love tank. Best of luck :) I'll see you in the next update. How Can I Feel Loved and be Happy ?
Lots of love,
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