Hi guys, in reality there are too many life issues to take care of, and most of the time It is always easier said than done. Although I have learned a lot regarding the differences between guys and gals and even observed bad experiences from my divorce clients, sad to say, sometimes it is so uncontrollable for me to “break the rules”. Anyways, I think breaking the rules to agitate my boyfriend Joe is much better than suppressing my honest feeling towards him to avoid a fight as you will be more resentful when you accumulate everything inside your heart for a long period of time.
Ladies, the same goes for all of you as well. I having mood swings all the time. It comes and goes as it is so unpredictable. My world is full of love when my mood is at the upswing, but I would feel disappointed, emptiness, and lonely when it hits rock bottom. Therefore, Joe knew my mood is worse than the weather in Canada. At least, he can predict the weather there through Google. I would be emotional and complaining about everything including bringing up all those bad experiences in my previous relationships when I am in a bad mood. Poor Joe, at the beginning he doesn’t really know how to react and sometimes he may think that I am blaming him. He would feel so upset while seeing me crying through the video calls. I think now he could handle me quite well as he understands that. I too, have been doing some housecleaning to my mood.
Guys, it is never easy for you when a woman is having a mood-swing housecleaning session. The only thing that you shall bear in mind is everything will be back to normal and your girl will even give you more love after she burst out everything through tears and emotions. She is not trying to put the blame on you or anything else, but she just couldn’t control her emotional needs. It sounds crazy I know, but it is a natural response that will happen repetitively to every girl’s life. Therefore guys, don’t expect you will always live under the sunshine. Always expect sunny with a chance of clouds.
As everyone of us must learn that :-
Guys fight because they want to be free .However, girls fight for being listened !
Some of my divorce clients told me that they do not understand why they could live happily when they were poor but need to seek for divorce when they are rich. I have had male clients tell me that they couldn’t understand why their wives never appreciated and feel grateful to what they have right now, especially when they are living a prosperous life.
Come on guys, money couldn’t change a natural behaviour of a woman. Those guys may feel tolerable and related while the woman was crying and grumbling when they were poor. However, this thought would kill your wife since woman always needs a space to do their housecleaning when their moods hit rock bottom regardless the situation. They need someone to lend her an ear when they are down. If you walk away from her, then you are hurting her even more.
So guys, I hope this could help you avoid some disagreements in your married life. Remember, communication is key! Check out my other posts about communication if you haven’t done so. Good luck!
Lots of love,
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