A good friend of mine once said to me: “Life can be enjoyable but getting there is another story.”
God is fair and has given every one of us 24 hours a day. Although it may seem like a lot of time, but when the work starts piling up bit by bit, we suddenly see that there’s just not enough time to finish everything. Therefore, we started to learn how to multitask and try to do a few things together to save time.
Anyways, life is fair. If you spend more time in your career, then you will get a bigger return from that compartment. The same principle is applied when you are trying to build up your relationship IQ while reading my Malaysia Divorce Lawyer Blogspot which is going to hit 100,000 views soon 😉 Thank you all for the support by the way! Please continue to subscribe!
Many friends have approached me recently and asked about ways to spice up their relationship. Gals and guys, please bear in mind you need persistency, consistency, and a lot of hard-work to build up a marriage. There is no short cut to gain happiness.
I always tell my friends that life sometimes can be repetitive, whether it is celebrating birthdays or anniversaries. Eventually, it has become a part of our daily routine. I mean, do not get the wrong idea, it is great for couples to celebrate their monthly anniversaries. I will send appreciation note to my boyfriend regarding what we had gone through in that month. I would also discuss my upcoming plans, and my wish in our relationship as well. Do things like that may seem like it’s nothing, but it goes a long way.
What’s more, we celebrate our monthly anniversaries even though we are far apart. I think scheduling a time to dine out in any restaurants or go for staycation to celebrate monthly anniversaries is a good way to spice up your relationship.
Some of them may say, “I have no time since we have kids!” I don’t think this is a good excuse to escape yourself from your monthly retreat. I have friends that have brought up this issue to their kids and let them understand the importance of having this anniversary. Their kids were so happy and they fully support their parents to do that. When the kids have gone to bed after a long day, that is the sign of freedom, peacefulness, and relief. Some of my friends even drink a few glasses of red wine to celebrate while watching Netflix in the living room after the kids go to bed.
Apart from that, Women love to be praised by their man, while guys love to be respected. Guys, it is too easy for you to make a day to your girl by giving her more compliments such as “Bae, you look different today!”, or “Bae, I love your curry fish!” Your wife will feel that her contribution has been well appreciated through your compliment. Remember guys: happy wife, happy life!
Another way to spice up your relationship is to accompany your life partner to do something which he/she would like to do. From there, both parties can create mutual interests and more topics to share with each other. I always recommend many series and reality shows to my boyfriend in exchange he will send me his favourite song lists. The same principle applies while we go travelling together. I prefer the sea while he prefers the mountains. Both of us will plan well and explore the world together.
Last tip! My boyfriend will ask me everyday “How was your day?” He knew that girls like to share the process while guys only focus on the end result. Therefore, he would squeeze a little time to be my good listener and at the same time he is able to understand more about my colleagues, my working life and everything about me through this daily conversation. I know it is never easy to maintain a healthy lifelong relationship, but a little move and effort can spice up your relationship :) So, let’s get moving!
Lots of love,
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This article is contributed by Messrs. William, Florence & Partners is a Johor Bahru-based litigation firm specializing in complex civil disputes and matrimonial matters. Led by partners William Lim Wei Loon and Florence Toh, the firm provides high-stakes representation in the High Court and Subordinate Courts of Malaysia.
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