Tuesday 25 May 2021

How Can I Understand My Man Better?

As I have mentioned before in my previous blog, men will cave themselves to sort out their problems. This is the link: https://malaysiadivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2021/05/how-to-stop-being-taken-for-granted-in.html

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This reaction is a natural response gifted by the God. Therefore, women shall learn to adapt and understand this type of behaviour .

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Ladies, I feel the pain when our man is silent. We always want our man to give us a reassurance when we talk to them even though his response is a “hmm” or “mmm”. A simple “hmm” or “mmm”, believe it or not, is a magical reply for ladies to feel secure and certain from their man. Although it sounds stupid and illogic, but this is who we are as women.


Ladies I cannot stress this enough, men do not want to be disturbed when they are bothered with problems. They need their personal space to digest and sort out their problems inside their cave. At this critical time, women tend to give their over concern towards their beloved man by asking them “How are you?” or “Is there anything you want to share with me right now?”. Although this type of response/behavior is not wrong, but please control yourself.

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Your reaction and your over concerned behaviour would irritate your man as he may think that you are questioning about his competency and capability to solve his own problems. Another way to look at this is that he does not want you to be part of his problem.

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Therefore ladies, kindly stand your ground and just let him be. Instead, use this precious time to do the things you want to do. Activities like shopping, hang out with your friends, read a book, watch a movie, or anything to assure him that you are happy and enjoying your time. Trust me ladies, when your man needs you, you will know right away.


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Let your man know that you are doing great, then once he has resolved his problems, he will come out from his cave to embrace you.

Many disputes and misunderstanding arise in a relationship merely due to lack of understanding between men and women.

I hope this post may give you a hand to understand more about your man. Good luck, ladies!


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